Add/ adhd is an actual diagnoses. It can be a nightmare for some people. You should be tested by a professional That deals with people that have ADD/ADHD. Medication can really help you with your symptoms. Your regular doctor doesnt have the experience or proper knowledge to really diagnose a person. A great place to get information is from Dr. Daniel Amenn at www.amenclinics.com/
They are finally getting the results back from a twenty year study that show if medication is started on kids at an early age it will help to reroute the pathways in your brain so that as an adult you may not need medication at all. Medications really need to be monitored closely to insure that your child or who ever is taking the medication is working properly. This is a very important process and in children you may have to change the type and amount of medication depending on activity level, age, weight etc. My wife and I Monitor my son very closely and we inform his teacher also. this way he or she can help monitor also. You may even need to meet with school officials to make an education plan for your child. It is very important to become knowledgeble on the subject since you are the most important advocate for your child. Kids as well as adults are not stupid or anything else because they have add/adhd, they just process differently than others. Most of the time it is like we have thousands of thoughts that run through our brain in lets say a minute while other people may only have about ten. Our brains are running on overdrive so we don't really process the information properly.
One of the best things to do is go to the site for Amen Clinics and that will give you alot of useful information then make sure and find a very good professional in your area that can you. There is hope for us all. I have ADD and medication does make a great difference but there are areas in your life that medication will not help but hard work on your part will correct many short comings. Let me know if I can be of more assistance.